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in which we meant happy frickin new year
2005-01-05 @ 4:20 a.m.
Wow, geez -- I think I've figured out why it's actually a necessary thing for us to have goals, careers, pursuits and efforts and such like that, if we also wish to have happy and healthy personal relationships: If you have too much time to spend around them, you can pretty easily start to hate just about anybody. I think it's maybe that there's some natural instinct to repulsion at shared slothiness -- this would be different from, say, shared vacation, which has more of an earned and truly needed kind of inactivity -- but if you're just hanging out with someone, anyone, for too much time at once? I think it's almost inevitable you start to ask yourself if they're not a waste of space. So, in a nutshell, I am saying that absence, even the little ones, does indeed make the heart grow fonder. In other news, I was visited my family back home for a week, and spent the whole week with my very own confusing girl since I got back, since she was off from work till today. Yep, it was a good Christmas and a Happy New Year, though I think I'll spare the details. I did have someone to kiss at midnight on the New Year, so I guess I didn't start out too badly, right? Anyway, I now have to figure out all my wonderful financial problems. Which, you know, really just means I have to start looking for a job. See, my own slothiness I'm maybe even just a little too comfy with.
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