The Good: I suddenly find myself having sex again. (Actually, the real good is more like that I found someone I really want to have sex with, beyond random physical horniness. But the sex part is crucial to The Bad.)

The Bad: Today as I was moving around, I realized the muscles of my biceps, pecs, abs, thighs and butt are all a bit sore. That's right. My body is sore just from having sex. Wow, when did that happen?

I mean, I know I'm out of shape, but when sex is really the most exercise I'm getting? Definitely not a good.

Especially since I don't see the sex thing lasting very long. She's a fantastic lady who I vibe with tremendously and who I find quite fun and clever and bright, and we have many things in common. Right, except for age, because she has a son who's only a few years younger than me.